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Effective Communication

Are you struggling with communications and do you want to improve on your relationships? Effective communication is essential for a healthy and thriving relationship between partners.

Here are five tips to enhance communication with partners, friends and family:

Choose the Right Time and Place:

Timing is crucial in communication. Choose an appropriate time to discuss important matters when both partners can give their full attention.

Avoid discussing sensitive topics in the heat of the moment or during stressful situations.  Find a place where you can talk without distractions.

Active Listening:

Give the other person your full attention when they are speaking. Avoid interrupting and truly listen to understand their perspective. Reflect back what you’ve heard to ensure you’ve grasped their feelings and thoughts accurately but do not do this parrot fashion. 

Be Open and Honest:

Create an environment of openness and honesty where all feel safe sharing their thoughts and feelings. Address issues as they arise rather than letting them fester and build resentment. Be honest about your needs and expectations to avoid misunderstandings.

Express Yourself Clearly:

Clearly communicate your thoughts, feelings, and needs. Use “I” statements to express your feelings without sounding accusatory (e.g., “I feel hurt when…” instead of “You always…”). Be specific about your needs and expectations.

Empathy and Understanding:

Put yourself in your partner’s shoes to better understand their perspective. Validate their feelings, even if you don’t necessarily agree with them. Show empathy by acknowledging their emotions and expressing support. Remember, effective communication is an ongoing process that requires effort from all involved. Building a strong foundation of understanding and openness can significantly contribute to healthy and fulfilling relationships.

I really hope these tips are helpful, please remember that if you’d like support, either individually, or as a couple then please do reach out and book a session.
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