As for why I became a counsellor, I always wanted a role where I could support people through their life’s journey, be there during their darkest moments, help them find clarity, and empower them to heal. Training as a counsellor provided me with the tools to do just that. It taught me how to create a supportive space, ask the right questions, be genuinely empathetic, and assist without trying to fix everything.

One of the most humbling aspects of being a counsellor is witnessing human resilience. I’m honoured that people trust me to be with them when they feel broken, lost, or overwhelmed. Watching them rebuild, rediscover their strength, and reclaim their lives is a privilege. Being part of that process is truly special.

Let me tell you about three clients who remind me why I love what I do:

Child A

Child A started working with me due to school attendance issues, anxiety, and OCD. After some CBT and Exposure Response Prevention work, she managed to reduce her compulsions and anxiety. This allowed her to attend school more easily and enjoy social activities. She has now enrolled in a college course she’s always been passionate about. It’s been a pleasure to be part of her journey and see her overcome barriers to learning and follow her dreams.

Child B

Child B came to me as an anxious 14-year-old who struggled with socialising, staying in class, and coping with unexpected changes. She was becoming socially isolated and withdrawn. Through person-centred and CBT sessions, and some fun and humour, she made significant emotional and academic progress. It’s been wonderful to watch her grow into a confident young lady and enrol in her chosen course.

Adult C

Adult C, a 26-year-old, came to sessions with health anxiety, OCD, and feelings of isolation and being stuck. Through CBT and Exposure Response Prevention work, he reduced his compulsions and anxiety, started a new job, began socialising, and took control of his life. His resilience and strength have been inspiring, even when the compulsions felt overwhelming. He trusted the process, resisted safety behaviours, and learned to trust himself again.

Becoming a counsellor has been one of the most rewarding decisions of my life. It’s not always easy, and some days are really challenging, but it’s always meaningful. Every session reminds me why I chose this path: to make a difference, one conversation at a time.